Kevin: We met in 2009 on the Big Brother Africa reality show.

Kevin: I took the decision as soon as I stepped out to the real world looking at the need to be more responsible and focused. She was a perfect match to make my dreams come true. I would say I am the most favoured housemate that Big Brother has ever produced. I did not only win, I found fame, fortune and a life partner. What more can I ask for? My wife is the best thing to ever happen to me.

Elizabeth: His proposal shocked me because I felt it was too soon and we dated for only three months after BBA. Initially, I thought it was because of pressure from our fans and I wasn’t too sure he knew what he was doing. I kept asking if he really wanted to settle down after the fame or if we would just get into the marriage and get out.

 Elizabeth: I am a risk taker and none of my friends knew what was going on. My first trip to Nigeria was for his show and till date, I sometimes don’t even know why I agreed. I thought it was one of those things you do and later regret. But here I am, happy I made the choice. It is the best thing I have done, no regrets.

Kevin: We enjoyed support from our families.

Elizabeth: My father is late and my mum was a huge fan of Kevin while he was in the BBA house. She was angry when I kept turning down his advances in the house and had to ask my closest friends who the serious guy I was dating outside the house was.

Kevin: There have been a lot of adjustments because culture shock plays a role. My wife had to adjust a lot since she left her country, Tanzania, to live with me here in Nigeria. These adjustments include food, our driving method, and language.

Elizabeth: I am very adventurous with food and I cook one of the best Egusi, Kuka and vegetable soups. When people eat it they don’t believe I cooked it. I make his local delicacies very well but I am still trying to adjust to how aggressive people can be in Nigeria, not in a bad way though. Back in Tanzania, we are slow and a bit laidback but there is this drive in Nigeria. It is sometimes overwhelming and I am trying to catch up. I drive on the right hand side in Tanzania and on the left hand in Nigeria. Sometimes, I go blank while driving in Nigeria and I will ask myself what side I should be on. Apart from these, I have adjusted well.

Kevin: It is always possible to have such thoughts but faith always supersedes every negative thoughts.

Elizabeth: When some Nigerian ladies got to know we were dating I got threats and stinkers. I heard statements such as, ‘You are reaping where you didn’t sow,’ and so many more. These lasted for a while but it has stopped now.

Kevin: Nothing serious because everyone faces challenges in marriage.

Kevin: Here is someone the whole world said was not interested in me or wanted me while we were in the House together. They didn’t see what could lead to marriage between us after Big Brother. But here we are. She has been in Nigeria since then and adapting very well. She is doing really well. Our union has surpassed expectations of many.

Elizabeth: I feel proud and happy to be married and still remain in love. Our marriage is a great achievement.

Elizabeth: Yes, it can and all depends on the background of the parties involved. Unlike when you are dating for three years, both of you get to see the good and the ugly side of each other in the house for three months.

Elizabeth: Initially, it bothered me but not anymore after I realised that I am the only one who understands me best. Whenever I am asked this question, I reply, ‘Does any woman want a broke man? Yes I went for the rich guy.’

Kevin: Everything I own belongs to her and the question of sharing doesn’t even come up.

Elizabeth: I love the fact that he is very spiritual and focused. He also helps me to grow spiritually.

Elizabeth: Since I married Kevin, four Tanzanians have called me and they were seeking advice because they are dating Nigerian men. We have hosted some here in Nigeria, seen their relationships grow and now they are married. In fact, East African girls are crazy about Nigerians.

Elizabeth: They say they are very caring and you can’t find this anywhere else.

Kevin: We handle it maturely and lovingly correct each other.

Elizabeth: I am first to apologise because I can’t stay angry for so long even if he is wrong.

Kevin: Yes we do and it was a mutual agreement.

Kevin: You always have to draw a line whether married or not. I guess that line has helped us manage our fans.

Elizabeth: He makes it easier for me because he takes me along and makes sure I know about them. My love for my husband is rock solid.

Kevin: 
The only assurance is in the grace of God.

Elizabeth: I love and absolutely trust my husband.

Kevin: Yes, we share some close friends.

Kevin: 
I think I am.

Elizabeth: Priorities have changed. Now, when there is money on the table it’s the kids and Kevin first before I think of myself.

Elizabeth: He likes keeping quiet about certain issues and sometimes it works but there are things we need to address as a couple.

Elizabeth: Yes we still go clubbing and travel occasionally.

Kevin: Yes, we do but the frequency dropped as kids started coming.

Elizabeth: We will visit Jos and give out gifts to the less privileged.

SOURCE- Punch